Understanding Vaginismus: What’s Missing? Maybe Nothing – Unless You Want Something to Change.

Let me break it down simply (and I know some might disagree, but bear with me). Women with vaginismus aren’t necessarily missing out on anything – unless they want to insert something into their vagina. T...

Psst... Did you know that vaginismus, also known as genito-pelvic pain/penetration disorder, cannot be cured by hymen surgeries?

Unfortunately, many women who suffer from vaginismus still undergo surgeries on the hymen (=hymen) to "expand" it, which is completely unnecessary! In very rare cases, th...

Many thanks to ZEITjUNG.de for a really great review of the German version of my book Das Vaginismus Buch (original title Living With Sex!)
Malena Enders has created a review that wraps all the ‘necessities of understanding vaginismus’ into a nutshell, bringing more awareness for this sexual dilemma ...