Thanks for a great interview!

Sep 26, 2023
Zeitjung-Vaginismus-Interview-Dr. Reeve

Many thanks to ZEITjUNG.de for a really great review of the German version of my book Das Vaginismus Buch (original title Living With Sex!)
Malena Enders has created a review that wraps all the ‘necessities of understanding vaginismus’ into a nutshell, bringing more awareness for this sexual dilemma that so many women/ couples suffer from and yet of which unfortunately so little is known.

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📰 “The Vaginismus Book"
The author Malena Enders read the German Version of the book.

Interview/Review by Zeitjung.de
Published: 24.06.2021
Author: Malena Enders


🔍 Summary Overview:

The article highlights Dr. Julia Reeve’s sensitive and empowering approach to a rarely discussed topic: vaginismus. Reviewer Malena Enders reflects on her lack of prior knowledge and praises the book for making complex medical and psychological mechanisms understandable, personal, and hopeful.


💡 Key Insights:

  • Empathetic and Clear Language:
    Dr. Reeve explains how and why vaginismus occurs, what happens in the pelvic floor and brain during sex, and offers real stories and solutions grounded in both science and compassion.

  • Medical + Psychological Expertise:
    The review emphasizes Dr. Reeve’s rare combination of qualifications in gynaecology, psychotherapy, and sexology, allowing her to treat vaginismus from a 360° perspective, including trauma and amygdala reflexes.

  • 30-Day Therapeutic Plan:
    The book offers a 30-day self-help program with the aim of achieving pain-free penetrative sex, including:

    • Personal motivation exercises

    • Education on female anatomy

    • Desensitization and neural rewiring techniques

    • Dilator training with medical background

    • A progress calendar to track healing

  • Supportive Tone:
    Despite being a self-help book, readers feel personally accompanied by Dr. Reeve. Her gentle and validating voice guides sufferers without pressure, emphasizing individual pacing and self-compassion.

  • Visual and Reflective Tools:
    Includes illustrations, case studies, note pages, and a countdown calendar for structured progress.


Conclusion by Zeitjung:

The book is highly recommended for:

  • Women suffering from vaginismus

  • Partners wanting to better understand

  • Anyone wishing to learn more about the female body and sexual anxiety

It is positioned not only as a therapeutic tool, but also as a powerful contribution to breaking taboos and promoting awareness in a society where vaginismus is still under-discussed.