Hello, I´m Dr. Julia Reeve

I am a gynaecologist, psychotherapist, sexologist, and expert on vaginismus. I am also the author of the book: "Living With(out) Sex" also called "The Vaginismus Book".

I help women to overcome vaginismus for good!

Today, I can say that the treatment of the vast majority of women/couples suffering from vaginismus is successful, and even after the very first therapy sessions, my patients already experience 'success stories'.

Whether it's being able to undergo preventative screenings, gaining more freedom through the use of tampons or menstrual cups, experiencing sexuality without pain and fear, or fulfilling a desire for children in a natural way.

Meet Dr. Julia Reeve
Helping Women Overcome Vaginismus with Science and Compassion

How I Became an Expert on Vaginismus

I grew up bilingual, with a German mother and a British father, originally from England. At the age of 16, I moved to Germany, where I later studied human medicine at Cologne University and became a doctor. I went on to specialize in gynaecology and obstetrics.

Since 1999, I have been living in the Netherlands while continuing to work in Germany, crossing the border daily. I opened my gynaecological practice over 25 years ago (in 1994) and quickly realized that my patients needed more than the conventional medical training I had received. To provide them with the best possible support, I pursued further education in psychotherapy and sexology, deepening my expertise in treating conditions like vaginismus.

In the summer of 2024, I retired from my in-person medical practice but continue to support women online through coaching, education, and resources.

Vaginismus You are not alone - Dr. Julia Reeve Vaginismus Expert

My Postgraduate Studies and Specializations:

Over the years, I have expanded my expertise through postgraduate studies in the following areas:

✔ Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy
✔ Psychosomatics
✔ Family Therapy
✔ Sexology
✔ Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM) – Master’s degree from the Technical University of Munich

These additional qualifications have allowed me to take a holistic and multidisciplinary approach to supporting women with vaginismus and related concerns.

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How I Developed My Approach to Vaginismus

Over the years, I have developed a structured, compassionate approach to supporting women with vaginismus.

This work has been shaped by my professional training as well as by years of listening closely to the women I support. Through ongoing learning, reflection, and patient feedback, my approach has evolved into what it is today.

A pivotal moment came when I personally underwent training for flight phobia. Experiencing the process from the inside helped me recognise how powerful gradual, respectful exposure can be when fear has taken hold in the body. I realised that the same principles apply to vaginismus — when approached gently, safely, and without pressure.

At the heart of my work is the understanding that progress happens at an individual pace. When appropriate and available, I also encourage the thoughtful involvement of a partner, as this can support trust, communication, and shared understanding.