It’s a real dilemma.
How do you long for closeness…
if every attempt ends in fear or pain?
It’s like craving chocolate when you’ve never tasted it.
You think you’re missing some...
If you’ve been struggling with vaginismus and trying to conceive, you may have come across stories online that seem… almost unbelievable.
“I’m still technically a virgin, but I’m pregnant.”
“We didn’t manage full penetra...
By Dr. Julia Reeve | Gynaecologist • Psychotherapist • Sexologist
If you're using dilators as part of your vaginismus healing journey, you may be wondering:
“How do I know when it’s time to go up a si
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“I Don’t Even Think I Want To”
She told me:
“I don’t even think I want to overcome vaginismus.”
And I believed her.
Because fear can sound like indifference.
She said, “I’m fine without sex. I don’t even care any more.”
But her body told a different story.
Tension. Avoidance. A quiet ache she coul...
Testimonial
I’m 29 years old and suffer from vaginismus. When I tried to have sex for the first time in my early twenties, I quickly realized it wasn’t working and that something was wrong with me. At the time, I didn’t know what the cause was. Even in the years that followed, des
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Why Is It So Hard to Overcome Vaginismus—And Who Can You Trust to Help You?
By Dr. Julia Reeve
Let’s start with something important:
If you’re here because you’re struggling with vaginismus—maybe silently, maybe desperately—you’re not alone. And no, you’re not broken. There are real reasons why thi...
Vaginismus is a deeply personal condition, and for many women, the question of whether to overcome it is more complex than it seems. Unlike other health concerns that demand immediate action, vaginismus often exists in the background—only surfacing when there’s a need for vaginal penetration. For...
