From Zara, 29

Testimonial

I’m 29 years old and suffer from vaginismus. When I tried to have sex for the first time in my early twenties, I quickly realized it wasn’t working and that something was wrong with me. At the time, I didn’t know what the cause was. Even in the years that followed, despite repeated attempts, I was never successful. I couldn’t insert a tampon and had never been examined by a gynecologist because of my fear.

When I was 24, I finally went to see a gynecologist and told her about my problem. Unfortunately, it didn’t help, as she wasn’t able to support me either. As I continued researching on my own, it became clear to me that all my symptoms pointed to vaginismus. When I brought it up with my gynecologist again, she still couldn’t help because she wasn’t familiar with vaginismus.

Then I found Dr. Reeve’s website online. I wrote down all the information, but I didn’t buy the course at the time because I was still studying and barely had any money. I also had thoughts like: What if I spend all this money and still don’t get better?

Years later, once I had my first real job and started thinking about having children, I knew I needed to overcome vaginismus naturally first. I didn’t want surgery or Botox injections.

From the very first video call with Dr. Reeve, I felt understood and comfortable. You could immediately tell this is her area of expertise, and that she knew exactly how to guide me through the process. That same day, I purchased her course “Breaking Barriers – Individual Coaching with Dr. Reeve – 12 Sessions” and got started.

At first, I made very quick progress, but after two months things slowed down because of my job. Still, Dr. Reeve kept motivating me, and I continued at a slower pace. Today, after seven months, I’ve almost completed the therapy successfully. My next step is to apply everything I’ve learned together with my partner (penetration), and hopefully begin trying for a baby soon.

I thank Dr. Reeve from the bottom of my heart for her support and all the tips and tricks that helped me overcome my fears. I am more than satisfied with this course and would wholeheartedly recommend it to any woman with vaginismus. It’s truly worth it!

One tip from me: keep a journal. Write down all the tips and tricks from this course. Record your successes and setbacks. Note your small steps.

At the beginning of this journey, I didn’t even know where my vaginal opening was. And today I stand here, free from vaginismus and fear! I’ve conquered the biggest fear of my life and feel stronger than ever before. So just believe in yourself — and go for it!