It’s like craving chocolate when you’ve never tasted it.

Jul 30, 2025
 

  She asked me, “How can I want to overcome vaginismus… if I’ve never even experienced what I’m supposed to be missing?”


It’s a real dilemma.
How do you long for closeness…
if every attempt ends in fear or pain?
It’s like craving chocolate when you’ve never tasted it.
You think you’re missing something.
But you’re not sure what it is — or if it’s even for you.


But maybe…
the fear isn’t proof you don’t want it.
Maybe it’s proof that part of you does
and just doesn’t know how to get there yet.


You don’t have to be sure.
But if you’ve ever thought,
“What would life be like without this fear?”
— maybe that’s your starting point.

Let’s talk about it.