Do you feel anxious or fearful when intimacy becomes physical?
Do you avoid things like tampons, medical exams, or intimate connection because of pain or fear?
Do you find yourself keeping this part of your life a secret—even from your closest friends or partner?
You’re not alone. One in ten women worldwide live with vaginismus (also called pelvic pain/penetration disorder). For many, it feels isolating, confusing, and impossible to talk about.
This book offers clarity and a way forward.
Written by Dr. Julia Reeve — gynaecologist, psychotherapist, and sexologist with over 25 years of experience — Living With(out) Sex explains:
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What vaginismus really is (and why it’s not your fault).
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The hidden reasons even doctors often miss.
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A step-by-step program to gradually reduce fear and pain.
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Realistic, discreet strategies to regain control and confidence.
This is not just about intimacy. It’s about reclaiming your freedom:
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Confidence in your own body.
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Stronger, more secure relationships.
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The possibility of pregnancy and birth without fear.
For many women, this book has been the turning point — the first time they finally understood what was happening and how to change it.
You don’t have to keep searching. You can begin here.
Start reading Living With(out) Sex today and take your first private, proven step toward a future without fear.