“I Can’t Do Dilating” Jul 23, 2025

“I Can’t Do Dilating”
She said, “I want to overcome vaginismus…
But I can’t do that thing with the dilators.
Just thinking about it makes me panic.”


She felt stuck.
Because everyone said “just use dilators” — like it was easy.
But for her, it wasn’t.
Her body said: no way. Shut down. Full fear mode...

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Why Is It So Hard to Overcome Vaginismus—And Who Can You Trust to Help You? Apr 15, 2025

Why Is It So Hard to Overcome Vaginismus—And Who Can You Trust to Help You?
By Dr. Julia Reeve

Let’s start with something important:
If you’re here because you’re struggling with vaginismus—maybe silently, maybe desperately—you’re not alone. And no, you’re not broken. There are real reasons why thi...

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Can I Heal Vaginismus at Home? Mar 22, 2025

Can I Heal Vaginismus at Home?

If you're quietly googling this question at night, tears in your eyes, your heart pounding from fear and shame—please know this: you are not alone.

Vaginismus affects more women than we talk about. And far too many suffer in silence, blaming themselves, feeling broke...

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