How to Insert the First Dilator with Vaginismus: Step-by-Step Guide Sep 04, 2025

For many women with vaginismus, the very first step — inserting the smallest dilator — feels like standing at the base of a mountain. It’s not just about a piece of medical-grade silicone or plastic; it’s about facing fear, letting go of tension, and allowing yourself to trust your own body again. I...

How to Get Past the First Insertion of a Dilator (or Finger) with Vaginismus Aug 23, 2025

How to Get Past the First Insertion of a Dilator (or Finger) with Vaginismus

For many women living with vaginismus, the idea of inserting even the smallest dilator, or even a finger, can feel terrifying. You might have bought a set of dilators, unwrapped them, and then thought: I can’t do this. It ...

Dr. Julia Reeve is a dedicated women’s health advocate specializing in vaginismus support. She`s a gynaecologist, psychotherapist and sexologist - acombination rarely found. And has two academic degrees - one in human medicine and one in traditional chinese medicine. Through her signature warmth and expertise, she empowers women to find real solutions, overcome challenges, and reclaim confidence in their bodies. At the heart of her work is a commitment to community, open conversation, and evidence-based guidance—making each coaching session feel both professional and personal. When she’s not developing transformative programs at The Vaginismus Zone, you’ll find her adding a dash of humor to lighten the journey and remind everyone that healing can be hopeful and even a little fun.

How to Get Past the First Insertion of a Dilator (or Finger) with Vaginismus

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